Coloring book of the Girly……

Daily Happenings, SAHM

What is the definitive girly, everyday girly?? The one that loves a tad bit of Glam but maybe not over-the-top glamour. What does it mean to paint on the face? Also why is it that we are so “obsessed” with having a bigger makeup kit than yesterday? We all can not be makeup artists for a living. We know this……still we have 20 pinks, 10 reds for our lips; then 100 shades for our eyes. (Sometimes it looks nice, other times we question why we even purchased that shade of Lime\Kiwi Green).

It can’t always be marketing that we feel we have to have the next fabulous HEAT palette? At least it’s not that way for me. I tend to be the hard to sale to girly, unless I need it or want it already and have my mind made up I will get Product Y. No sales person can sale me anything, the door to door people have to find a new house to sale to. Sorry Mary Kay, No Way!!!

Again, why must this or any of us GIRLY have all this makeup? The answer is simple, I will answer it for the guys with one question for them. Why does a non- mechanic need 5 or more screwdrivers, 20 piece drill bit set, or even a sleuth of socket wrenches collecting dust in the foreground known as the man cave? Dramatic, well that’s what it sounds like when anyone questions a Girly-Girl’s makeup kit. Now I am not here to mock anyone’s hobbies or how any of us freely choose to spend our hard earned money. I’m simply answering the age old, not so age old question of…….

Why so much makeup?

Yesterday we were all little kids, playing with Barbie and Ken Doll or even The Original My Little Pony. We all had our crayons, markers and some of us even got a lovely artists kit as we got older. Along with our First Tube of lipstick. clinique_long_last_lipstick_pink_chocolate__2_

It becomes every teenage girls daily routine of trying out different “looks”. That is what becomes the new coloring book of our lives. The 20 pinks is our way of deciding in the moment: which shade do we feel today and is it pretty enough with our blouse? The “pretty enough” part is not for anyone else, the pretty is in our own opinion based on mood and how often we wear that shade. It’s a personal choice, we know we don’t care what others opinions are of said shade. This choice is our crayon for the moment.

The Crayon we chose as little girls was too based on mood, how often we chose that shade, and what we were to color. The Box has 100’s of crayons in it but 95% of the coloring days we always go back to our favorite. It’s our mood lifter, our persona, and sometimes we just favor that color the most. So the day must come when that Crayon grows shorter and sometimes our favorite color is just gone! These are the days we go to the other lesser used Crayons. The colors we like, but we just save them for the special days and the bummed days. It is in our Girly minds that we find an uplifting in colors because in the end, that is what the world is made of. Many, many, many, many COLORS. So why just choose one all the time?

So it is down to expense.

  • YES: We know it gets expensive for no real reason. Other than its a Brand, and sometimes its just that Brand we can find said shade in. Or sometimes it is based on our skin type. (No need to ask, just nod your heads gentlemen, unless you are a scientist/dermatologist. Commence the eye roll.)
  • YES: We know we just bought that shade of Rouge, but some of us have busy lives and maybe something happened to that shade of Rouge.
    • It is not a tool, makeup either expires or the more tragic……Falls to the floor and shatters everywhere.
  • NO: We don’t just look up the most expensive, URBAN DECAY or Marc Jacobs brands. Just because you see it or hear it does not make them our only. We might have gotten that Marc Jacobs mascara as a free gift.
  • NO: Some of us as Girly as we can be, don’t always have to shop our lives away. Or spend all weekend in Sephora or ULTA. There is the internet we can always order from.

With all the makeup around, do we feel we have to have something in our handbag? I will add with the amount of makeup in my box, I don’t even bother to carry lipstick in my handbag. If it’s there it was put there in a hurry and then forgotten about. Another point is this: in the hurry run-run days do we still need to worry about the few minutes makeup takes? Yes! Even with 2 littles running around I’ll find time to put a bit of makeup on. Because it makes me feel ready to begin another run-run day. While I color in my face, my soon to be 5 year old is coloring her My Little Pony book.

Now why is makeup so important? Here is the secret, it’s not. But it does make a statement, saying how well we take care of ourselves. Grooming is essential in modern times, we don’t live in the middle ages. Some primp more than others, agreed, but still makeup is the coloring book of women. It’s the tiny bit extra, that gives us a morsel of delight, in the 10 minutes or so it takes us to make our statement to ourselves. A necessity, never, important, not the least bit.

In the end of the day, mascara smears and the rouge fades into the wash. To some it seems utterly useless and that is fine. Some may read this and think what a waste of money for something to just wash away hours after applying. That is true in itself, but one can also argue that Coffee is a waste of money for a little pick me up. Yeah, that’s preposterous. So Crayola has its many, many shades of crayons, and this Girly will also have her many shades of liners and shadows galore.


Coffee Chat some more, what is the craziest thing anyone has told you about those that wear makeup? Have you experienced the too heavy makeup? Or any other makeup quips or thoughts.



Coffee Chat Social

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Coffee Chat can be found on Facebook.

Yay!!!! I’m so excited, this venture is the stress release we all need. The world can be crule, ugly and so harsh amongst people. Not this utopia of girly chat. FYI: this little jar I’m holding will be discussed in a post on my fav facial and neck care.

Come like us. We won’t plaster you in minty green gunk…..maybe a little while you sip your cuppa and tell us all your whatevers you want to discuss. Girly coffee is knocking at your door. Time for a cuppa and a chat, where all the crazy, frazzled days are left in the carafe.

Find me on instagram as well. Chat you soon.

Girl Talk: Makeup fads or trends that must end?

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Wet Eye shadow; trendy or simply cheesy? Anything that makes the eyelids look oily or wet should be obvious don’t. Not in my makeup caboodle. But why is it a thing in the first place? Are we just that desperate here in 2010’s to be different that we have to make our eyelids look at a constant state of being – in – the – sun too long melty?

Lets take a stroll to late 1990’s when we all had to have the little jars from Claire’s of glitter gel and glitter powder.  We had to have the shine on, some subtle while others looked more like they had a glittery accident in art class walking the halls. Well all that glitters is gold, and we knew it was going to be one of those fashion trends that soon will fade into the wonder years of life. Much like our parents generation’s fashion, glitter – glitter in my hair was our bell bottoms class of…..never mind.

On to the wet eyes decade, the days of eye gloss? I don’t have a problem with it, to each their own. But this does remind me again of the 90’s makeup fads. My mother had these tubes from clinique, but they were not concealer. they came in berry colors, orange coral, and some others.

These did not have the same effect as eye gloss. But this type of makeup have been around for quite sometime. GLOSS: not just for the lips, girls. But what I don’t care about eye gloss is it also reminds me of growing up in Texas in the summertime. Wear a little eye makeup and step outside for 2 minutes, your eye makeup now looks just like the trendy eye gloss. So if you live in a very humid climate, I just saved you a few dollars.

So as this fad is found all over pintrest and magazines, I’ll stick to my matte. Just remember days of long ago in the 90’s when we all walked the halls with our glitter hair and face. We did not have selfies then. Lets keep coloring into the lines with these trends or fads, because why do we need 5 or even 50 of the same shade? We are girly women and we like to color in the lines. Our face is our adult version coloring book. But Shhhhhhh, they may find us out and we may not get that ultra cute hot pink Milani lipstick.

Asking all  ladies sipping their affogato, cappuccino or americano.  If you don’t like the look of eye gloss, could there be anyway it could become convincing to try? Or are we going overboard the Gloss ship? Have you tried eye gloss and why do you like it?

In another 5 years maybe tomorrow we will be watching another makeup trend. Until a new fad comes around: May your coffee always be strong and our chats blissful as a biscotti. A bientot!

Everday Coffee

Daily Happenings, SAHM

What is my go to bean??? Maxwell house and on occassion Gevalia. These are the everyday cup of choice. Along with Community as the boldness hits the pallet just right.


Why am I not so fond of Folgers? There is something about that brand leaves a lasting bad taste in my mouth. That would have to be my desperate for caffiene cup. Otherwise no one will see that in my hands and deffinately not my cupboard.

So today’s coffee talk, which will be a random post for all that follow, we have looked a few of my fave everyday cuppas. What is your go to cup of bean goodness? What is it about the brands you don’t like? And did you know you could always used the left over granuels as a nice facial scrub? Since it’s already used and we are just going to toss it, why not repurpose it from time to time for our beauty repetoire? I do love my dead sea beauty products, but sometimes as a SAHM  we have to improvise. Plus the antioxidants are said to give an all natural glow to the skin. So chat up your thoughts, grab your cup and think of all tge wonderful things that bean is doing for the sake of beauty, mind and sanity.

Not more coconut oil!

Haircare, SAHM


No this is not another “health benefits” or “it has been found on the contrary…” post. I am talking beauty benefits. If you have long hair and are a mother whom sometime rush and don’t condition all the time. This is for you.

Hair masks and hydration. Just the other day while my baby was taking her nap I was searching through pintrest out of bordeom. Surprised that there was hardly anything on hydrating and moisterizing for hair that wasn’t all natural. Majority was kartin this and that. Or vitamin E for strong strands. But nothing for natural remidies that don’t leave our long tresses greasy/dirty looking.

So here I am today, with baby laying next to me asleep.

Now sometime as us women let life keep us going, we can let our long hair go in our hurry-busy days and nights. To top it off we are watching little ones, we don’t have all the time to do the extra washes and style it can take when using such products.

That leads us to my go to hair – feels – like – the – salon magic graced her tresses. Coconut oil, 30 mins to an hour and 1 quick wash your done. (FYI: Make sure before you put the oil in, comb out all tangles.)


Combing out tangles makes a big difference. This will help with the hydration of strands. Also it helps in the washout. I do this approximately once a month or so, my experience has been I don’t feel I have to condition after each wash. Just a tip from one SAHM to another.

Another tip from me, coconut oil lasts longer than other products I’ve used in the past. Plus side you can get it at the supermarket instead of making special trips for the expensive products at the salon we all love. Paul Mitchell, it’s a 10 or Biolage. These products are great and I have used them for years. But sometimes in a hectic busy-busy life, we forget or are just too tired to take the extra TLC are long tresses deserve. Coconut oil has been a hair saver and time saver my hair absolutely loves, I’m sure.